My brother and I aren't especially close, but I do hope that if things ever got really bad for our Mum, then we would be there for each other. I don't find it easy having a parent with MS, and I worry about leaving Sophie alone to deal with that. And then there is the plain old selfish reason for wanting another one - babies are cute.
This is what I don't get about the "oh well, you're lucky to have one." Yes, that is so true, but it also means I know exactly what I'm missing. And when lack of experience means that you get something wrong, or you feel you haven't the most of having that tiny baby, you just look forward to another opportunity to do it again.
And anther facet to it is all my friends that I made when I first had Sophie have all had their second babies, and the regular coffee meetings are likely to start once the chaos subsides. I can't face them, which I feel guilty about because I'm taking another opportunity away from Sophie to play with other children.
Anyway, it's not a done deal, so fingers crossed.